Hey Beautiful Women,
I have a bit of an issue that I was hoping maybe you’d help me tackle.
I’m a 22 year old tertiary student and in my 22 years of life, I’ve never had a boyfriend. To be more precise, I’ve never had a guy approach me or ask me out or anything that shows ukuthi the guy is interested.
I have girl friends who tell me that there’s nothing to rush for and also have some people saying this is abnormal.
I’ve even lost all my self confidence and am no longer even in a position where I can say I’m ready to date. I don’t know if I’m too ugly, too fat, just uninteresting or everything combined. I even started working out last year to lose a bit of weight, but self confidence still dololo.
I have male friends but I’m not entirely comfortable around them except two, because we’re at the same res as of this year. My friends however are mainly girls (I went to an ALL-GIRLS boarding high school and then stayed at an ALL-GIRLS res for 3 years) so I’m uncomfortable around guys.
Is anything wrong? I mean what can I do to be attractive to guys? Or must I not worry at all?