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Relationships

April 26, 2016
The Tedious Task Of First Time Dates

So you have finally pulled yourself together after your last relationship blew up in your face and decided to start entertaining the thought of dating again. Yes, that daunting exercise where you must dress up, spray on your best perfume and go to meet prospective suitors… let’s be honest, dating is helluva intimidating. So Sipho […]

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April 25, 2016
A Woman Can Have A Relationship In Her Head All By Herself

Girl can not live on idea alone. A couple of months ago, I was sitting with my girls and we were having one of those talks. Obviously about boys and how weird they are. 2 hours later, after much deliberation, we all came to an astounding conclusion. A WOMAN CAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP IN HER HEAD […]

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April 21, 2016
Identity: So Who Are You Really?

“Who are you?” Very few questions boggle my mind quite like this one. Who am I? How do I even begin to put my entire being into 5 smooth sentences that make sense? I struggle with this question because the truth is, I actually don’t know. Plain and simple. I know what I do, what […]

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April 21, 2016
How Not To Break The Bank For Love

I think at some point in all our lives, we have all experienced that pure, innocent love; whose survival relied purely on spending time with each other, sitting in the park, drinking juice or walking back home from school together having fat chats about who copied who’s homework. It’s at that point where love was […]

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April 21, 2016
Seeing Daddy Through Your Broken Mom's Eyes

Daddy Issues Growing up, I thought the world of my grandfather, uTat’omkhulu, and I still do. He died when I was only seven but he still remains the strongest and most aspirational male figure in my life. And nothing can touch the image I have of him in my head. When I was a child, […]

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